Ever seen a bride lash out at those around her simply because her favourite nail colour can't be found, or some one used her new perfume? Did you glimpse the ugliness of rage on that petal soft face fresh from a parlour? There is no doubt that this girl is going to glower, frown, glare and look disgusted through the wedding proceedings. Pretty bride? Not a chance. Check out her album. You'll see.
So, what are we going to do? Take a deep breath and read on. This is important.
Never get involved in all the nitty gritties of your own wedding preparations. Trust your folks. They care too.
If things are not going to plan as you see it stay calm. What will be will be. Let those in charge deal with it.
Stop frowning. Make-up creases. Apart from giving you a look you'd rather not see.
Yes it's an exciting day. But do stay calm through it. You'll tire easily and look it too.
Something's upset you? Don't snap and snare. It doesn't help. On the other hand, it harms your looks.
So those were basic ground rules. Is there more? Sure there is.
Heal yourself from within, girl. It's worth it.
Drink plenty of plain water. It'll help avoid dehydration and panic feelings.
Shed all animosity from your past. Friends turned foes, angry aunts and unbearable uncles. Make peace with all. Don't start a fresh new chapter in your life with negativity. Never mind who is right and who isn't. Rancor is bitter. Be sweet.
Don't start off with preconceived notions about in-laws and out-laws. They are people too. Your people from now.
Take pride in your parents and all that they have meant to you. But never compare.
Let go girl. Mom has her own life to lead. Just as you do. The umbilical cord isn't made of elastic.
Ground rules for looking good
So those were basic ground rules. Is there more? Sure there is.
